Now international unions in the Russian Federation are practically the norm.
Girls from Russia very often marry foreign citizens who came to the country to study or work. Some are looking for a groom from another country through marriage agencies and dating sites.
Why are local representatives of the fair sex so eagerly looking for husbands from other countries?
There is an opinion that the great popularity was due to the fact that local beauties were disappointed in Russian men. After all, they do not strive to conquer a girl with tenderness, do not do romantic things, do not show the necessary respect, and many are also addicted to alcohol.
Eastern guys know how to beautifully give compliments and courtship, and they drink very little alcohol and in establishments designated for this. As you can see, they look more advantageous.
Girls planning to marry a foreigner and move permanently abroad should know that modern Western traditions are common in most eastern countries, that is, in their later lives, their views on the family, as well as the girl’s position as a whole, will change.
For example, a marriage between a Russian and an Azerbaijani will not result in her ending up in a harem. By the way, such unions are found quite often in the Russian Federation. At the same time, newly-made families sometimes remain to live in Russia. It happens that Azerbaijani citizens deliberately marry Russians in order to obtain the legal right to live, work, and, after a while, citizenship. It is possible that a man in Azerbaijan has a first wife and will send her money. According to Islamic traditions, a Muslim can have several wives at once (maximum four). All this is written in the Koran. Although in a modern state this is not very encouraged. If a citizen has several wives, then he is obliged to provide for each one financially, and equally fairly. In view of this, many representatives of the stronger sex of eastern countries, who are confident that they can fulfill this condition, prefer monogamous unions.
Do Azerbaijani guys marry Russian girls? Undoubtedly. Let us note that they are very responsible towards both marriage and the family as a whole. They are guided by the Koran. And it states that marriage is already half of religion, and the best believers are those who respect their wives.
The Koran, by the way, does not prohibit marriages between a Russian girl and an Azerbaijani, but it is considered not particularly desirable until the other party has converted to Islam. In general, such unions can be concluded if, of course, the consent of relatives on both sides is obtained.
Russian women who marry Azerbaijani men begin to live by new rules. Moreover, each party to this union will have its own rights and, of course, responsibilities.
Firstly, a man must provide for his family financially. Secondly, he is obliged to pay attention to his wife, take care of her, as well as her spiritual education and, of course, development. A woman must listen to her husband unquestioningly, right down to the selection of outfits. In such marriages, there are also divorces, but they can only happen because one of the partners (husband or wife) does not fulfill their responsibilities. First, the spouses are given time to think, during this period they live separately, and then they will be officially divorced. Time is being waited for another purpose, namely to detect the wife’s pregnancy. Children are a protected segment of the population in Azerbaijan.
If a Russian and an Azerbaijani married, after which they moved to live in her husband’s homeland, then the girl will have to get used to the new state, customs that, at first glance, may seem slightly unusual, perhaps even wild.
Firstly, if the husband and his family do not live in a big city, then the wife will have to be at home all the time. As you know, in the village many girls do not study or work, that is, local representatives of the fair sex do not realize themselves and do not develop. What then do the fair sex do in Azerbaijan? They run the household (if there is no housekeeper), raise children, go to visit (if the spouses do not mind), and tend to the garden. The breadwinners in the country are men. As a rule, they are engaged in the purchase and sale of goods and trade.
Secondly, it is difficult to get used to the way of life of religious citizens. It is necessary to fast, follow religious traditions, pray and much more. Thirdly, you need to get used to the local climate. It’s hard to eat local food at first, it’s all very fatty
These citizens have hospitality in their blood, so they have plentiful meals, several times a day, not to mention tea parties.
Fourthly, it is necessary to abandon short and revealing outfits, trousers, and colorful colors both in clothes and in make-up. It is possible that in the husband’s family it is customary for women to wear headscarves, then his wife will also need to do this. Of course, drinking alcohol is prohibited, as is smoking tobacco.
In general, the attitude of Azerbaijani citizens towards Russians, including representatives of the fair sex, is positive, but with some disdain, as infidels. If a woman who comes to Azerbaijan respects the state and its traditions, then the country will become a real homeland for her (certainly the second).
We talked about how our compatriots live in the Volga region of Russia. Now it's time to find out who they live there with. Although, what is there to find out - after all, everyone has long known that a more or less self-respecting Azerbaijani cohabits (even marries) in Russia with a Russian woman. I don’t want to be branded as a cosmopolitan, but I’ll still emphasize - not with a Tatar, not with a Chuvash woman, or even with an Azerbaijani woman (and there are many of them there), but with a Russian one. Why does this happen? What zest do hot Caucasian guys find in Russian beauties? How do northern arrows pierce eastern hearts? I will try to clarify how a person also found himself pierced by such an arrow.
1. It’s easier with Russian women. They don’t break like ours, and they don’t overprice themselves. The golden rule works - be simpler, and people will reach out to you. It is to them, dear ones, that Azerbaijani (and not only Azerbaijani) men are drawn.
2. Russian girls don’t try to seem better than they really are. Even prostitutes, if you approach them on the street and ask - do you work? They will answer you as is. If, God forbid, you approach a decent girl, she will simply say that you confused her. And if you approach our, even five-shivan b... on the street with the same question, she will create such a commotion that it will not seem like much. And in the end it will turn out that the Virgin Mary cannot compare with her in purity and innocence, and you will be disgraced throughout the street.
3.Russians are fun. They are much more sociable than Azerbaijanis. They can easily drink a couple of bottles of beer with you, or something stronger. I'm not talking about smoking weed yet. And our people will only smoke with you in the toilet or in the basement of a bar. The main thing is that you can easily watch football with them - no jokes about 22 idiots chasing a small ball.
4. They are unpretentious. Only with them do you understand your own importance as a simple guy. Not a wallet with money. They are even ready to pay for themselves in a restaurant, not to mention public transport or taxis.
They don’t care about your social status; they are interested in you as a person and as a capable man. But with us it’s the other way around - rarely will an Azerbaijani woman need you without a house and a car.
5. They are more affectionate, more loving. There is no need to win them over with gifts, for them you yourself are a gift. And what man doesn’t like to feel needed and important? They don’t need “shampoo” or “dayday” - they just need the person to be good! Isn't that right, gentlemen? So, girls, if you don’t want to be an old maid, follow the five points above!
Question for a psychologist:
Good afternoon I met a guy on a dating site, he turned out to be Azerbaijani by nationality! We started dating, he treats me quite well, there were quarrels because of his virtual communication with other girls, but he claimed that it was only for selfish purposes and told everything, what and how. There were many doubts and I tried more than once to leave him, but he asked for forgiveness, said that no one was important to him except me, that I had become dear to him. We even lived together for 1 month, but the time came when he needed to go home for 3 months, I thought that was where the whole story would end. Before leaving, he said that he loved me and would definitely return. For the first month, we called each other every day, I constantly heard pleasant words from him, he sent me money for the holidays and just kind of help for the fact that in my time I helped him out here more than once. But after 2 months we began to quarrel often, he doesn’t say much about his life there at home, he was supposed to come in early January, 3 months later, but said that the circumstances would smooth out so that he would stay at home for another month. Upon arrival, he plans to live together, but I constantly doubt him, I feel that the relationship has cooled down very much, he only says that I am dear to him and misses me, there is no talk of love now, although at the beginning he said that he wants to build a family with me . Tell me how to understand his intentions and understand how he feels? He continues to communicate with other girls because of money, to some extent, one might say, he enjoys the trust of the girls and they help him, but there is nothing to take from me, and he knows this, and he also helps me when needed. Help, please, I'm confused.
Psychologist Alexandra Aleksandrovna Opaleva answers the question.
Anna, good afternoon.
A young man communicates with other girls for selfish purposes. As I understand it, he himself is unsettled and is trying to use his environment to improve his living conditions. Perhaps a young man will be able to win over a wealthy lady, what role will you have in this case? There may be an option that you start a family and provide for him, since a person, as I understand it, is a consumer and not a creator. Do you need such a husband?
I think that you have already seen the real picture of the development of your relationship, but perhaps you don’t want to admit it to yourself. Don't expect action from him. Consider for yourself whether the relationship is worth maintaining. What's keeping you from breaking up? Hope? The young man is committed to a profitable relationship, preferably without investments. He didn't hide this from you. I doubt that his image of the world will change.
Value yourself. And if you decide to continue the relationship, then do not have any illusions. In this case, it’s better to stock up on cunning and patience, and try to slowly move the young man towards your idea of a husband.
I lived in Ajigabul for 23 years. My father has his own business in Baku. I didn’t need money, just as I don’t need it now. But we will not be talking about my family and adolescence, but about Russian girls.
It was because of them, or rather because of one, that I decided to go to Moscow. The reason is that I met Katya on the Internet, a sweet Russian girl with whom I corresponded for more than a year. My father did not really approve of my choice to move, but still did not dissuade me.
And so a week later I was in Moscow, checking into a hotel. I rented a car. I rested and corresponded with Katya, with whom we were planning a meeting. And everything would be fine if it weren’t for the nightlife in this city.
I have friends here from Baku, restaurateurs, who learned from my father that I had arrived. That’s when everything started happening - restaurants, clubs. A huge number of beautiful girls. Everyone is chosen, dazzling, but at the same time everyone is different. Beautiful, smart, lively.
And why did I wait so long to move? I don't understand.
What I really like about Russian women is their large, expressive eyes and fair skin. I'm just freaking out about this.
By the way, our meeting with Katya took place a couple of days later. We walked and rode around the capital, if constantly stuck in traffic jams can be called riding. Beautiful Russian girl. But I was always drawn to the nightlife, which captivated me. And Katya is not a fan of clubs, she’d rather go to the movies or to a quiet cafe. I knew about this, because we talked for more than one day, and I shared her views until I found myself surrounded by my club friends.
Day after day, I watched how they easily met Russian girls, how they easily agreed to go for a ride after just a couple of hours of communication and a presented bouquet of roses. How their faces change when it comes to visiting restaurants that they own. Yes, in Russia it is easy to impress a girl with a good car.
Not all, but the vast majority of visitors to prestigious restaurants and clubs easily find a common language with us, representatives of Central Asia.
Russian girls also behave differently from ours. They are more accessible or something. According to our customs, you cannot afford this, as in Russia. This is especially true for clothing. Deep necklines, mini skirts and short dresses are a real treat to the eye.
It’s easier to meet Russian women, it’s easier to find a common language. They are more relaxed, they are lively, they are always having fun, always positive. In a word, Russians are a lot of fun. They are much more sociable than Azerbaijanis.
I don’t even want to talk about the appearance. May my compatriots forgive me, but there are many more beautiful Russian girls than beautiful Azerbaijani girls. For Russians, the ratio, in my opinion, is 8 to 10. That is, out of ten girls, eight are beautiful, and five or six are stunning girls per ten.
Another point to note is the big contrast. If in a club the girls need you to treat them and take them to restaurants, then in the parks it is much more difficult to meet stunning representatives of the fair sex, especially if you are from the south.
This is my second year in Russia, and I have no plans to leave yet. I really like it here. Even winter is not scary. By the way, nothing worked out with Katya, for whom I exchanged Azerbaijan for Russia - she didn’t like my company, and I didn’t really drag her there. Why, if she doesn't need it.
Now we correspond online, sometimes we drink coffee in a restaurant. Even less often, we go for walks. Over all these years, I have not developed a serious relationship with anyone, since there are so many Russian girls. I couldn’t stop at just one, it’s not realistic in Russia.